it's not fair it's not fair IT'S NOT FAIR

[flamingjune]

My great-grandma died tonight.

RIP LORRAINE COSTA
JUNE 22, 1920 - OCTOBER 17, 2007

Comments

[vacantseas.livejournal.com]

aww, misty, i'm so sorry :(

*hugs*

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

thank you *hugs* :(

[kristineybean.livejournal.com]

*hugssssss* I'm sorry hon.

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

*hugs* thank you.

[alienchrist.livejournal.com]

i'm sorry for your loss. give yourself time to grieve. write what comes to you. hold onto good memories. <3

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

thank you so much.

[crowded-avenue.livejournal.com]

aww i'm sorry :( that is so sad. She looks like she was sooo nice! *hugs*

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

she was, she was such an amazing woman. :( *hugs* thank you.

[suchcolors.livejournal.com]

i am so, so sorry :(

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

thank you :(

[phinnia.livejournal.com]

*hug* I'm sorry.

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

*hugs* thank you.

[ohcupcake.livejournal.com]

*hug*

I'm so very sorry. If you need anything, please, let me know.

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

*hugs* thank you.

i don't need anything, just the comfort of you guys which has been great. :)

[kittybrat.livejournal.com]

is she the one you're always talking about? mainly the one that has been treated like crap by your aunt?

either way, i'm sorry.

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

yeah, she's the one. i'm waiting to see if my aunt shows up at the funeral. i'm sure she won't mind taking the money that is left to her in my grandma's will.

i swear to god, i want to beat the shit out of her. i don't know what i will do if she shows up.

[kittybrat.livejournal.com]

:(
don't do whatever your grandma wouldn't want you doing. if you keep that in mind, it might help you out a little bit (because it's more that you're trying to please her, which - in my case - always cancels out my anger). try to remember that this is your grandma's day... don't let your stupid aunt steal the show.

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

very true. i'm sure i won't be doing anything except crying, anyway. :/

[dense-macabre.livejournal.com]

Not to push in on the conversation, but what you do is honor your grandmother and be graceful until all business and services are taken care of. Then you approach her in a seperate place, and knock her brain below her stomach.

I know this because after my brothers funeral, when we were at the memorial looking at photos and talking, my Mother went outside for a moment, shortly there after my father's wife came out there, called her a cunt and said now that Chuck is dead she will not tollerate her calling her house anymore. Not even in regards to me.

My mother didn't do anything. I ran into Jerry(step-mother) sometime after that, and ripped her face off, her hair our and her clothes apart.Theres no way in hell my mother or I would ever disprect the dead, especially someone so young.

Keep your head up, you're such a better person than that woman. Remember that.

xo.

[corn-field.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. What a lovely lady.
<3 Janae

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

thank you.

[exairetemechane.livejournal.com]

I really suck at giving condolences because when I try they sound pre-packaged and insincere, so here's a picture of a kitty!

I'm sorry too.

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

awww! that made me smile, thank you. :)

[kookie21.livejournal.com]

:-( *hugs*

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

*hugs* thank you.

[dense-macabre.livejournal.com]

I'm not going to say sorry, beacuse it never helps. But it helps knowing that somone cares and is always there.

& I am. xo xo xo.
<3

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

you always make me smile when i need it :)

thank you <3

[valley-chick.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry to hear about that Misty. I also know that no matter what I or anyone says, it's going to suck for a long time. But we are here for you if you do need us.

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

thank you.

[burningempires.livejournal.com]

awwwwwwww :(
*HUGS*
<3

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

*hugs* thank you, julie. <3

[frickslover.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry Misty! :( *hugs*

I know it's been awhile, but if you ever wanna talk I'm here.

[blue-skies.livejournal.com]

thank you, adri. *hugs*

[in-sanemind.livejournal.com]

aww hun im sorry *hugs*