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My great-grandma died tonight.

RIP LORRAINE COSTA
JUNE 22, 1920 - OCTOBER 17, 2007

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Date: 2007-10-18 05:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vacantseas.livejournal.com
aww, misty, i'm so sorry :(

*hugs*

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Date: 2007-10-18 05:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
thank you *hugs* :(

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Date: 2007-10-18 06:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kristineybean.livejournal.com
*hugssssss* I'm sorry hon.

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Date: 2007-10-18 07:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
*hugs* thank you.

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Date: 2007-10-18 06:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] alienchrist.livejournal.com
i'm sorry for your loss. give yourself time to grieve. write what comes to you. hold onto good memories. <3

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Date: 2007-10-18 07:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
thank you so much.

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Date: 2007-10-18 07:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] crowded-avenue.livejournal.com
aww i'm sorry :( that is so sad. She looks like she was sooo nice! *hugs*

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Date: 2007-10-18 06:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
she was, she was such an amazing woman. :( *hugs* thank you.

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Date: 2007-10-18 12:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] suchcolors.livejournal.com
i am so, so sorry :(

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Date: 2007-10-18 06:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
thank you :(

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Date: 2007-10-18 02:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phinnia.livejournal.com
*hug* I'm sorry.

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Date: 2007-10-18 06:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
*hugs* thank you.

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Date: 2007-10-18 04:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ohcupcake.livejournal.com
*hug*

I'm so very sorry. If you need anything, please, let me know.

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Date: 2007-10-18 06:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
*hugs* thank you.

i don't need anything, just the comfort of you guys which has been great. :)

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Date: 2007-10-18 05:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kittybrat.livejournal.com
is she the one you're always talking about? mainly the one that has been treated like crap by your aunt?

either way, i'm sorry.

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Date: 2007-10-18 06:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
yeah, she's the one. i'm waiting to see if my aunt shows up at the funeral. i'm sure she won't mind taking the money that is left to her in my grandma's will.

i swear to god, i want to beat the shit out of her. i don't know what i will do if she shows up.

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Date: 2007-10-18 06:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kittybrat.livejournal.com
:(
don't do whatever your grandma wouldn't want you doing. if you keep that in mind, it might help you out a little bit (because it's more that you're trying to please her, which - in my case - always cancels out my anger). try to remember that this is your grandma's day... don't let your stupid aunt steal the show.

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Date: 2007-10-18 06:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
very true. i'm sure i won't be doing anything except crying, anyway. :/

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Date: 2007-10-18 09:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dense-macabre.livejournal.com
Not to push in on the conversation, but what you do is honor your grandmother and be graceful until all business and services are taken care of. Then you approach her in a seperate place, and knock her brain below her stomach.

I know this because after my brothers funeral, when we were at the memorial looking at photos and talking, my Mother went outside for a moment, shortly there after my father's wife came out there, called her a cunt and said now that Chuck is dead she will not tollerate her calling her house anymore. Not even in regards to me.

My mother didn't do anything. I ran into Jerry(step-mother) sometime after that, and ripped her face off, her hair our and her clothes apart.Theres no way in hell my mother or I would ever disprect the dead, especially someone so young.

Keep your head up, you're such a better person than that woman. Remember that.

xo.

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Date: 2007-10-18 07:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] corn-field.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. What a lovely lady.
<3 Janae

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Date: 2007-10-18 07:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
thank you.

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Date: 2007-10-18 07:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] exairetemechane.livejournal.com
I really suck at giving condolences because when I try they sound pre-packaged and insincere, so here's a picture of a kitty!
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I'm sorry too.

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Date: 2007-10-18 07:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
awww! that made me smile, thank you. :)

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Date: 2007-10-18 08:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kookie21.livejournal.com
:-( *hugs*

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Date: 2007-10-18 08:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
*hugs* thank you.

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Date: 2007-10-18 09:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dense-macabre.livejournal.com
I'm not going to say sorry, beacuse it never helps. But it helps knowing that somone cares and is always there.

& I am. xo xo xo.
<3

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Date: 2007-10-19 07:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
you always make me smile when i need it :)

thank you <3

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Date: 2007-10-18 09:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] valley-chick.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry to hear about that Misty. I also know that no matter what I or anyone says, it's going to suck for a long time. But we are here for you if you do need us.

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Date: 2007-10-19 07:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
thank you.

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Date: 2007-10-18 10:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] burningempires.livejournal.com
awwwwwwww :(
*HUGS*
<3

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Date: 2007-10-19 07:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
*hugs* thank you, julie. <3

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Date: 2007-10-19 01:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] frickslover.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry Misty! :( *hugs*

I know it's been awhile, but if you ever wanna talk I'm here.

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Date: 2007-10-19 07:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-skies.livejournal.com
thank you, adri. *hugs*

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Date: 2007-10-22 05:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] in-sanemind.livejournal.com
aww hun im sorry *hugs*